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Question: I am going to get married. can u plese explain me how to conduct the first night? and wat is the best ways to make the wife happy in sex? islamically Answer: Sunnats for the wedding night: 1. Give your wife a gift e.g milk (musnad Ahmad) 2. Read salaah together. (2rakaats nafl) you must be the imam with your wife behind you.(Mussanaf Ibn Abi Shaiba) 3.Hold the forelocks of her hair and ask Almighty Allah to protect her from shaitaan and vice versa(Abu Dawood) 4.Read/ bismillah/ before consummating your marriage. 5. Read surah 25 verse 74 and ''/ya wadudu'/' abundantly. The best way to satisfy your wife sexually is to learn what pleases her and act accordingly,ask her what she likes and dislikes. Some woman like kissing and hugging, while some woman do not like it. You have to learn to know her, her likes and dislikes sexually. All within the confines of Sharia. You should first start with foreplay, which could be kissing her lips and face, stroking her hair, telling her that she is beautiful, Stroking her body in which ever way pleases her, once she is completely aroused then you may enter her from which ever position you and she likes as ling as it is in the vaginal cavity and not the anul cavity as to enter the wife from the anus is HARAAM. After you have satisfied her (she has reached orgasm) and you are satisfied,then you should not just pull out of her, you should continue with afterplay which is once again what she likes, you would have to find out from her what that is. you could continue with loving talks, you could continue with kissing and hugging. |
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